As a woman and author writing this post, I will try to be fair because only in that sense will this post be fair for all to read. First things first, since this is a continuation of my previous post titled "Men And Women: Platonic - Is That Possible?" I invite you to read it before you get started on this post. CLICK HERE and do so now.
Now that you have read my previous post, and I am assuming that you did, and if you have any thoughts and comments you are welcome to submit them below.
A definite YES! Men and women do communicate differently. How so? Think about this and let me know if this has happened to you. Have you ever been in a conversation with a man, and you asked him a question and he really didn't know the answer? But here's the thing, he's NOT going to let you know that. So when he does say something, his answer doesn't make sense to you and so now you want clarification on why he said that. All of a sudden he has something else he has to do. Why do you think he left so abruptly?
More than likely he was trying to make a getaway because he didn't want you to realize that he didn't know. What's up with that? None of us are perfect, why is it a man feels like he has to have all the answer, is it because of his pride and he is the 'MAN' therefore he is supposed to know everything. Oh wow what a shame, because a man that thinks this way is in for a rude awakening one day. It will happen and he's not going to know how to deal with it, because he has been programmed this way. Why do I say that? It's TRUE and the only way around this kind of thinking is to reprogram the subconscious mind and that will not happen until he admits that he doesn't know and have to know everything.
Check the link at the end of this post, if YOU want to reprogram your subconscious mind before it is to late.
Now moving on to the women, I want to give you a scenario that I want you to think about as well. You're a business woman and in a supervisory position, and there are a few men in with the people that you supervise. When it comes times to give a promotion, you choose a woman and then one of the men approaches you and says that he should have gotten the position for which he is qualified for, and you know this. The woman you picked is a single woman with a child and you want to help her, so you give it to her. Here's the thing, what did you base your decision on? Was it because she was qualified, or a single woman with a child and your heart was all emotional? Is that fair for all parties involved? NO it is not but that's how many women will think and they will rationalize and say that they made the right decision. We women tend to think with our heart's more than men. That's just who we are, and it is rare to find a woman that is so heartless that she will not help another woman because we are compassionate like that. On the other hand, there are men that are compassionate and will on occasion do something that's noble. I hope that I have given you something to think about and it is my hope that it will make you a better person and it all boils down to being fair with one another no matter what the gender is.
Now coming up on my next post, this will be the finale and probably the most controversial "Men And Women Who Cheats." I look forward to seeing you back here for the final chapter to this saga. Oh yes it is a sage, because this is an intriguing topic for me to write about.
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2 comments:
Very good points and observations. There is no doubt that Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Who really knows, but the point you made is valid, we think and act differently. I teach this Terri, how to communicate effectively and while we are different and we need to understand that it really comes down to a few simple things we can all do. No that's another conversation.
Indeed they do. God wired the male and female differently. It takes patience, time and effort to figure each other out.
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